By Karu F. Daniels, AOL Black Voices
When I say that Holly Robinson Peete is a superwoman, I really mean it.
With all of her philanthropic efforts and her continuously evolving acting career I had no idea she was suffering the challenges of parenting a child with a disability.
In the May edition of 'Essence,' the '21 Jump Street' star opened up about her eldest son being diagnosed with autism, and the effect it had on her marriage to former NFL quarterback Rodney Peete.
"I was going to leave my husband ..." she revealed.
Because of his work schedule, the former Philadelphia Eagle was largely absent -- gone half the year for training and regular season play -- meaning that the actress did the child rearing on her own.
Rodney Jr. (pictured fourth from left) was diagnosed with autism at age three.
"I knew we had to roll up our sleeves and not go into denial," she explained. "With autism, early intervention is important. We had to get those therapies going."
Raising an autistic child has been painfully educational, she admitted.
"You really find out who your friends are," she confided. "When your kids is struggling at 4, being disruptive, and he stops getting invited to parties and play date, it hurts."
Peete, who recently landed a role in the ABC pilot 'Football Wives,' added that she didn't want to do film work and be away from her children for extended periods of time.
Her time at home has been well spent.
Rodney, Jr. is "now a personable boy in the process of being mainstreamed at school," the magazine reports.
"I had this moment when Rod was in this school where many of the kids were much more severely affected than he was -- he was like the poster boy," she recalled. "That's when I thought, This could be so much worse."
Thankfully for Holly Robinson Peete, it wasn't.
And we all welcome her back to primetime network television with open arms.
Next month, the networks roll out their line-up to see which are appetizing to advertisers. 'Football Wives,' described as a dramedy based on the popular British soap 'Footballers' Wives,' sounds like a winner, with a cast which includes Gabrielle Union, Ving Rhames, James Van DerBeek and Brian J. White.


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By: Cecil Jones on 4/23/2007 4:58PM
You go girl! Raising all those kids and still looking great for your Hollywood husband, now that's a strong woman and a great Black family. Nobody does anything alone. May God continue to bless the Peete Family. I also believe autism is a gift that we simply need to look a little harder to find. I hope you find your son's real talent.
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By: DeniseJ on 4/23/2007 5:20PM
Holly, you have a beautiful family. I wish you and yours blessings!
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By: Cee Cee on 4/23/2007 11:34PM
There is no love like a mothers love for her children...
I had no idea that she had four children.Holly you look like you are taking good care of your self as well as your children...
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By: kathi Breland on 4/24/2007 2:17AM
I am so proud of this woman. Her strength is inspiring. God Bless Holly and her beautiful family!
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By: Racquel on 4/24/2007 2:40AM
Holly, you are what a Good Woman/Mother should be to her children. I know with Love you and your family will be ok. You are a great Role Model for mothers....
May God continue to bless you.
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By: I Press on 4/24/2007 2:45AM
I HATE HER! How can she still be so thin after having FOUR kids? (SMILE) I still have baby fat, only my baby is 21.
ALl jokes aside, Holly is a strong black beautful woman, and she is the epitome of a lady. Marriage is tough, but I am so very glad they decided to hang in there and make it work. It is so easy to quit and give up... I appreciate them as a couple. And I am glad that they both realize that the kids come first no matter what.
Doesn't she have a foundation for research on autism? I know Toni Braxton's son has it as well.
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By: 1e4a08bf on 4/24/2007 12:50PM
I JUST WANT ADD THAT I THINK THAT HOLLEY ROBINSON-PEETE IS A EXAMPLE STRONG BLACK WOMAN WITH HER FAMILY AND BEING WITH MR. PEETE THEY MAKE A GREAT COUPLE MUST SUCESS TO THE BOTH OF THEM AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. YOU WORKING HOLLY!
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By: so poetic on 4/24/2007 4:55PM
As a single mother of two, I understand how hard it is to take care of your kids. As a mother of a son 5 year old son with autism, I feel everything she is going through. No one knows what life will throw us but GOD. The is always a silver lining in every cloud. Having a child with a disability is very hard but, there is something about it thats makes you realize you also have strengths that you never knew you had. I admire Hollys' srength and I wish her son the best.
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By: apples on 4/25/2007 7:38PM
Wow ... Football Wives? If it's anything like Footballers Wives, it's going to be huge! Look it up folks. It will make Desparate Housewives look tame. How very exciting! I hope they come thru with it. I'd love to see how Peete works in it and I know Union will be just right for it too. Also, I am so glad to see Holly and Rodney doing so well. What a great couple.
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By: Mommie on 4/25/2007 8:17AM
I think Holly is a wonderful role model for young African American girls. I have admired her for many years. So glad she and Rodney are doing well.
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