By Karu F. Daniels, AOL Black Voices
Did Usher really put his mom out to pasture?
If you have the tabloids tell it, yes: Jonetta Patton is being "eased out."
"Damn, Damn, Damn!!!" as Florida Evans expressed on a memorable episode of 'Good Times.'
What a way to spend Mother's Day.
Speaking of mothers: Tameka Foster, the 38-year-old divorced mother of three who is now engaged to the 28-year-old multi-platinum-selling, multiple Grammy Award winning R&B superstar, is believed to be the new Capo of the House of Usher.
"Tameka has a hold over him," one alleged "friend" told the 'New York Daily News' this week. "Nobody can figure it out. Some people think he may make Tameka his manager."
Whoa.
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Another infamous black momager once told me years ago that "nothing is stronger than pillow talk."
Patton, who celebrated her 50th birthday at a lavish soiree last month, has been reportedly romantically linked to Eric Carr, a 36-year-old well-to-do former professional pugilist turned tycoon. According to Wikipedia, the Houston native is a 1993 Golden Globes champ, who has one child from a previous relationship.
He and Patton are reportedly engaged.
Holy Cougar!!!
No one has really confirmed if a fall-out occurred between mom and son, but Usher's longtime publicist Simone Smalls confirmed that she, herself, is no longer working for him -- after a near decade-long association. However, the esteemed Vice President of New York's Susan Blond publicity firm remains in close company with Patton and said that she will not be releasing a statement about her son.
Now I'm not going to say that Usher, legally known as Usher Raymond, is throwing "mama from the train," but all arrows are pointing in that direction.
His former record company publicist Chris Chambers, who also works OutKast, Jill Scott and Mya, said he thinks Usher may have hired power publicist Patti Webster, whose client roster includes Janet Jackson, Jermaine Dupri, Patti LaBelle, Ludacris and Kimberley Locke, among others.
Webster has not confirmed or denied her involvement in Usher's revamped management efforts at presstime.
This ousted momager business couldn't have come at a worst time, though.
Patton, once described as "rotund" and "jovial" in a legendary 'Vibe' magazine cover story penned by 'New York Times' reporter Lola Ogunnaike, is the subject of an E! Television special, 'Raising Celebrity: Tales of Hollywood Moms,' premiering May 13 --that's Mother's Day!!!
Known as one of the most successful (and stable) stage moms in the business, Patton talks tough throughout the hour-long special, which also features an exclusive interview with Lindsay Lohan's tabloid-ready mother Dina Lohan.
"You wear two hats, but you never take off the mother's hat," Patton is quoted as saying.
"If you're hanging with your kid in the club and you're doing the same thing that your, your kid's doing, then how could you demand the respect, so, I think it's important that the parent always set the example," she commented.
She doled out other advice too.
"As a parent in the business that manages the child, I will say be the leader, not the follower."
With advice like that, I'm starting to wonder if maybe she should've gotten a book deal, like Kanye West's mother.
"You have to always have the kid's best interest at heart from the beginning, and, then, second, you have to know in your heart that you are doing the right thing for the kid," she said.
Now that she may not be overseeing the mega-successful career she built, Jonetta Patton could be an in-demand free agent.
"[Execs at Usher's label] think Jonetta's done an incredible job with his career," the "friend" told the 'Daily News.' "They're encouraging her to take on Britney Spears."
I would pay to see that happen.
Maybe Brit would too.
Ha.
According to a rep for the E! network, 'Hollywood Moms' "uncovers the talked-about tales of celebrity moms like Spears, Kate Moss and B."
Bow Wow's mom, Theresa Caldwell was also interviewed for the special.
Now, that sounds like some "Must See TV."
UPDATE #1: IN HIS OWN WORDS: Usher faces the music and responds here.
UPDATE #2: CONFESSIONS OF A PUBLICIST, Usher's Ex-Spokesperson Speaks here.


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By: Monique on 6/07/2007 12:08AM
i totally agree with comment 111. and i thank God that people are not afraid to stand up and speak on behalf of the kindgom. forget personal opinions and what the majority says...what does God say. sad thing is...usher will probably never see that. i doubt if he's sitting at home looking at black voice blogs. although im about to pray that he does. but thank you for laying it out black and white like that. there is no in between.
represent the kingdom in all that you do...how else will this world see God.
for the woman in comment 120, i dont think the issue is that she is divorced with children. the issue is that she divorced her husband to be with someone else. and that she was having sex with someone else while married. its not that being divorced makes her not "worthy" of a man like usher. he's no better than any one else. he's made that obvious by his own lack of integrity.
people need to simply do whats right because its right. period.
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By: monya on 6/09/2007 11:19AM
IM WRITING THIS IN THE COMMENT MADE BY THE DIVORCED 31 YR OLD WOMAN WHO WROTE HER HOT MESS...FIRST OFF...HE FIRED HIS MOTHER YOU DONT PUT ANYONE BEFORE YOUR MOTHER THE POINT PPL WERE TRYING TO MAKE OH SLOW ONE IS THAT SHE LEFT HER HUSBAND WHICH MEANS SHE CHEATED....DO YOU NOT SEE A PROBLEM WITH THAT ..BLOOD IS ALWAYS THICKER THEN WATER....AND WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND HIS MOTHER STOOD BY HIM AND MADE HIM WHAT HE IS TODAY..SO IN RETURN HE FIRES HER HMMMMMMMM....THEN HOOKS UP WIHT A GOLD DIGGER WOMAN THAT WAS MARRIED AND YOU DONT SEE A PROBLEM WITH THAT LOL....WOW ARENT YOU BITTER FROM YOUR DIVORCE....LETS JUST END THIS BY SAYING WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND ..YOU NEVER PUT ANYONE BEFORE YOUR MOTHER REAL TALK....AND YOU DONT PUT A TRICK BEFORE YOUR MOTHER ....REAL TALK!!!!!!!!
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By: dianie on 6/09/2007 12:02PM
usher do your thing but once a cheaper always a chaeper and if she really love u who knows what may happen good luck to u and yours ( still love your mother)
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By: Erich Jackson on 6/09/2007 9:50PM
I am not really a fan of Usher, but I respect the fact that he has really kept himself really well grounded during his career. I think his working relationship with his mother has lasted longer the most careers in Hollywood so that says a lot for itself, that he really loves, and respects his mom. I think it is time for Usher to move beyond his mother's coat strings, I further think that his mother has instilled in him enough sense on how to handle business, and other things about life decisions that he can handle things himself. I also am sure she will always be around for any advice if he should need it. Good Luck, Mr. Usher on this new journey.
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By: cutiestillcutie52 on 7/15/2007 9:03PM
i think people have to go through things in life to learn from them. if this is not for him then he will know next time. but never never disrespect your family. i understand what people saying about this woman but this is whom he wants to be with. i give him my blessing and pray that this woman with not leave him like she left her children father.
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By: XoXo on 7/18/2007 11:35AM
Usher why must you be so stupid. she is nuttin but a hungry money look alike Dennis Rodman. How can u do this to your mother. i know u think that we don't understand but it you that don't understand we been by u since day one (include your mother) we have been cheering you on and this is the thank u give us firing you mom and letting a greedy hungry broad gettin u all worked up I was your number one fan sittin in the 3rd roll first in line every time. I flew all over the world for your concerts. Oh well at least I can save some money now
TOO BAD!!!!!!!!
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By: lisa on 7/18/2007 11:59AM
Usher is 28, his mom has to let go even if he is making a mistake. Let Ush make his mistakes to make him a man.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=3GVTGNcGNeY
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