By Karu F. Daniels, AOL Black Voices
Although he's riding a wave of success with the R. Kelly duet 'Same Girl,' Usher should really do a remake of the Smokey Robinson & the Miracles classic 'You Really Got A Hold On Me.'
Because when it comes to his pregnant fiancé Tameka Foster, that's the name of his tune for sure.
The multiple Grammy Award winning R&B crooner sent an open letter to 'People' magazine addressing the rumors regarding his relationship with Foster – from their rumored wedding date being moved up from the fall to this month – to Tom Joyner's claim that Usher
threatened him.
Regarding the 'New York Post's' story that the wedding will take place by the end of July in order to beat the arrival of their baby, Usher offered: "Since my wedding day will be special to Tameka and I, this is information that we would like to keep private."
On nationally syndicated radio personality Tom Joyner's shocking claims that Usher threatened to "whoop" his a** after he made fun of the rumored tension between Foster and Usher's mother and former manager, Jonetta Patton, he said: "I have never threatened or harassed anyone from any media format."
Here is Usher, in his own words:
"It has already been announced that I plan to marry this year. However, since my wedding day will be special to Tameka and I, this is information that we would like to keep private. It's disturbing that the media and bloggers (under the guise as 'fans') continuously speculate on the personal aspects of my life, therefore making assumptions and wrong insinuations that my fans are subject to believe.
"I am happy, excited, completely clear and independent on my direction, feelings, decisions and I am NOT BEING LED. Some media and bloggers have been totally intrusive, they have misconstrued aspects of my personal life and, because of this, my 'true' fans are not sure about what is fact and what is fiction. There is a difference in stating an opinion versus drawing a conclusion that is incorrect.
"As previously reported, I have NEVER threatened or harassed anyone from any media format – print, radio, television or Internet media. At this point the best thing to say to my fans is just because it sounds enticing and it MAY sound 'true,' that does not make it truth. I understand the fact that I must sacrifice some anonymity for the career I love, however some things are personal like having a child or a marriage. These aspects are not for the public and, to me, are sacred. I would hope my privacy in these areas would be respected."
It appears that the Chattanooga native and his future missus seems to have a love affair with mainstream magazines owned by Time, Inc. Just last month, Foster, herself got up, close and personal with 'Essence' magazine, tackling the same sort of issues.
Usher (legally known as Usher Raymond) has a new album due out this fall.
I suspect things are going to be quite interesting this go round for him.


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By: irockworldz on 7/14/2007 2:19PM
yeah usher is happy and all but his fiance looks pretty manly.
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By: julian on 7/15/2007 11:59AM
It is always amazing to me to read the comments by those in mainstream America.
The complexion of his fiancee's skin, her looking like a man, is this really important? If he loves her, why should you care? If you ask me the misspelled words and the gramatical errors should be of concern.
I'm still new to this blogging thing, but it is disgraceful to read the messages that are being sent for everyone to read. A lot of you would be wise to keep your comments to yourself, or have someone proofread it before it is posted.
As far as Usher is concerned (and for that matter any other celebrity), get a life and let them live theirs. America is OBSESSED with celebrities, when it should be OBSESSED with great education and safety for our children.
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By: Kels on 7/15/2007 5:54AM
It's really sad that some people base love on appearances. He had the cute girl, the model chick. Now he has an older woman who apparently makes him feel GOOD. Kudos to Usher for snagging an older woman regardless of how pretty she may not be to the world. I aint mad because I got a younger husband too!!!!
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By: LLQueen on 7/15/2007 6:46AM
I'm happy for you usher I am I one of your devoted fans. Peopls say stuff boo. Don't let them stess you cuz that lets them win. You should be worried about the missus to be and the baby. Congrats by the way. People are going to hate and if you don't have haters that just means you not doing some thing right. I wish you all the luck in your future boo. Stay up and I hope you have a nice healthy baby. Tell the missus not to stress cuz it's not good for the baby. I can't believe your getting married. I'm so proud of you. Good luck and god bless you and your fam.
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By: Roz on 7/15/2007 7:36AM
Good luck usher with your new wife and baby
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By: tootjane on 7/15/2007 7:31AM
usher i am happy for you man if that is what you want just remember be careful we all have to pay the price for our own consequences. but, believe mothers usually know what is best, they will be there when nobody else will.
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By: Gloria on 7/15/2007 8:04AM
As a mother, I hate to see this young man getting involved with this older woman with children. Marriage is hard as it is even when two people are compatible. I can understand how his mother feels because I would not have wanted my son involved with this woman. I really don't think she will be an asset to him but a liability instead.
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By: Gloria on 7/15/2007 7:42AM
As a mother, I hate to see this young man getting involved with this older woman with children. Marriage is hard as it is even when two people are compatible. I can understand how his mother feels because I would not have wanted my son involved with this woman. I really don't think she will be an asset to him but a liability instead.
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By: gerri on 7/15/2007 7:58AM
I wish these young men would get married first . The public is always looking for black young men to fail. I plead the blood over all ther lives. In Jesus name Amen
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By: toni on 7/15/2007 8:22AM
good luck usher to you and your new faimly your wife
my husband was 11 years younger then me i had 5 childern when he married me we wee togeather for 22 yrs he was
the rock for a min any way with all that is going on in the world grab hold to that happyness and love and care for one another tomorrow is not promised to any of us we need to focus more on this globel warming the people in dufar/uganda and help them / i have never seen a uhaul behind a hurse yet in other words what can you take with you when you depart this plane but the love love on you 2
may people just mind there own and stop hateing god bless
you both and momma stop it you need to know you didnt raise no fool and he made this choice from god. peace
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