By Karu F. Daniels, AOL Black Voices
Although he's riding a wave of success with the R. Kelly duet 'Same Girl,' Usher should really do a remake of the Smokey Robinson & the Miracles classic 'You Really Got A Hold On Me.'
Because when it comes to his pregnant fiancé Tameka Foster, that's the name of his tune for sure.
The multiple Grammy Award winning R&B crooner sent an open letter to 'People' magazine addressing the rumors regarding his relationship with Foster – from their rumored wedding date being moved up from the fall to this month – to Tom Joyner's claim that Usher
threatened him.
Regarding the 'New York Post's' story that the wedding will take place by the end of July in order to beat the arrival of their baby, Usher offered: "Since my wedding day will be special to Tameka and I, this is information that we would like to keep private."
On nationally syndicated radio personality Tom Joyner's shocking claims that Usher threatened to "whoop" his a** after he made fun of the rumored tension between Foster and Usher's mother and former manager, Jonetta Patton, he said: "I have never threatened or harassed anyone from any media format."
Here is Usher, in his own words:
"It has already been announced that I plan to marry this year. However, since my wedding day will be special to Tameka and I, this is information that we would like to keep private. It's disturbing that the media and bloggers (under the guise as 'fans') continuously speculate on the personal aspects of my life, therefore making assumptions and wrong insinuations that my fans are subject to believe.
"I am happy, excited, completely clear and independent on my direction, feelings, decisions and I am NOT BEING LED. Some media and bloggers have been totally intrusive, they have misconstrued aspects of my personal life and, because of this, my 'true' fans are not sure about what is fact and what is fiction. There is a difference in stating an opinion versus drawing a conclusion that is incorrect.
"As previously reported, I have NEVER threatened or harassed anyone from any media format – print, radio, television or Internet media. At this point the best thing to say to my fans is just because it sounds enticing and it MAY sound 'true,' that does not make it truth. I understand the fact that I must sacrifice some anonymity for the career I love, however some things are personal like having a child or a marriage. These aspects are not for the public and, to me, are sacred. I would hope my privacy in these areas would be respected."
It appears that the Chattanooga native and his future missus seems to have a love affair with mainstream magazines owned by Time, Inc. Just last month, Foster, herself got up, close and personal with 'Essence' magazine, tackling the same sort of issues.
Usher (legally known as Usher Raymond) has a new album due out this fall.
I suspect things are going to be quite interesting this go round for him.


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By: Chane' on 8/14/2007 4:39PM
Usher this is coming from a fan that really cares for you and has followed your career since 1997. I really and truly enjoy your work and everybody that knows me knows how much I love you. My own boyfriend at times gets envious of my love for you. I want you to really think about what you are doing and sure that you are making a wise choice, because your happiness is key. I have never seen any artist love his mother the way you do and to hear that you fired her over a woman is very shocking annd I pray that it is not true. Trust me when I say that a mother is the most wonderful gift that God can ever place upon any human being. I lost my mother on the 30th of June this year and it hurts to the core. I cry every night just to be able to talk to her. My dad walked out and left (addicted to drugs) and now at 18 I am rasing my 16 year old brother and 13 year old sister the best way I know how. I know you want to do right by the one you love but think of it this way no woman is worth you turning on the your family and the one woman that has been there with you through it all. I trusting in you that you will make it through this because I know you will put God first. You are a very strong man. And you needn't worry about your unborn child because even if you and Tameka aren't together it doesn't mean that you can raise your child properly. I know that you of all people will know how to show a child what having a dad should be about. I love you and take this to heart. Your one true fan (besides your mother).
God I wish we had a chance to meet I would have really enjoyed having the chance in being your wife someday!
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By: Queen Mother Nana on 8/15/2007 11:50PM
Why must we make such negative comments. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. There is more to beauty than outer appearance. As if someone that is physically beautiful will make a better companion then someone who is not. If you gage a relationship based on beauty I pity you. The very thought of that is concerning. Not saying that Ms. Foster is not beautiful, Because I think she is pretty, but as black folks we have let others defind our standard for beauty. Maybe the comment did not come from a black person and if so that is why it is very important to parade our many versions of beauty at all time. We come in many beautiful colors and features which makes us uniquely beautiful. I understood the comment, giving Usher praise for marrying a dark skin woman. There is also truth in the comment "what difference does it make", good thought but unfortunately there are a few blacks globally that have a tendacy to discriminate against our beautiful dark skinned brothers and sisters. It is refreshing for the eyes, soul and mind to see the beautiful Queen Usher has selected. She sort of reminds me of his mother, also refreshing to see, a man marrying a woman who favors his mother. I do not think there is no greater respect and honor to give a mother. I hope he and his mother can get passed this. There is something to be said about mothers intition, lets hope in this case that she is off for their sake. I am sending positive vibes to them and I wish them both all the success one can give.
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By: mose on 9/11/2007 8:44AM
not that it matters, but how many baby mommas does dude have? i mean didn't he get this eisha brightwell, supermodel, pregnant in 05? I guess this old chick figure she was going to put a demand on this freak and snag him!
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By: DAZ on 9/18/2007 12:41AM
YEAH, GOOD LUCK, YOU ARE GOING TO NEED IT. LOL
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By: Avery on 9/18/2007 1:27AM
SO.............
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By: san adams on 9/18/2007 5:38PM
who gives a hoot!!!!!!!!!
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By: karen on 9/30/2007 4:27PM
Happy wishes for you and your family usher.
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