By Karu F. Daniels, AOL Black Voices
Expect more eyebrows to be raised when Bill Cosby sits in the hot seat with Oprah Winfrey this week.
The legendary entertainer, who is the co-author of the new book 'Come on, People,' is all fired up and speaking out on the controversy over his 2004 remarks about the black community.
"The only thing I regretted was I thought that I was talking to just my people," said the legendary entertainer largely known as "America's Favorite Dad" -- which airs nationally Oct. 17.
"I said, okay, I'm gonna talk to my people and I guess there were some black people who saw some white people sitting around and then they decided that I was dragging out dirty laundry," he continued.
The "dirty laundry" in question are the comments, made during an appearance at the Rainbow/PUSH Coalition's annual conference in the summer of 2004, where he said: "Let me tell you something, your dirty laundry gets out of school at 2:30 every day, it's cursing and calling each other [the N-word] as they're walking up and down the street. They think they're hip. They can't read. They can't write. They're laughing and giggling, and they're going nowhere."
The remarks sent shockwaves through the African-American community, stirring much debate in the media about Cosby and whether or not he had the right to speak such words in a public forum.
On Winfrey's top-rated talk show, Cosby is uncensored, unplugged and utterly unapologetic. Here's some dialogue.
OPRAH: Did you think that you were dragging out dirty laundry?
BILL: Oh, yes. Oh, yes. And have you ever seen dirty laundry?
OPRAH: It's bad, isn't it? It's smelly. BILL: And we have to clean it, don't we?
OPRAH: Yeah. What -- what did you think though, Bill, when everybody really came after you? What did you -- did you think?
BILL: I thought they were crazy.
OPRAH: Did you. (Laughter.)
BILL: I said -- I said, these people have lost their minds.
According to publisher Thomas Nelson, 'Come on, People,' authored with Alvin F. Poussaint, is "always engaging, and loaded with heart-piercing stories of the problems facing many communities."
The hardcover tome hits newsstands this week.
"Our children are trying to tell us something...and we're not listening," Cosby said to Winfrey, while also taking on topics including absent fathers, teenage pregnancy, violence, the "n" word, and spanking.


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By: terri on 8/29/2008 1:04AM
why does bill have on those dark glasses? hhas he lost his eyesight? he didnt say anything that wasnt true, or anything that oprah hasnt said on more than one occassion.
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By: lynn on 10/13/2008 1:50PM
Talk about slaves days is all you here white man did this white men did that what are we doing.
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By: Miss R. on 10/15/2007 2:58PM
I don't blame Mr. Cosby for speaking out on our issues. It's not like white people didn't know about it. However, the only problem I have with it is the generalization of lower-income areas. There are many people who are striving to create better lives for themselves, and they just happen to live in the 'hood.
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By: Andrea on 10/15/2007 3:01PM
That's it Bill, preach from your pulpit. With that attitude you have, you will help no one. It's all about how you approach issues and then how you try to work to resolve them. Bill Cosby may just be blowing hot air.
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By: Andrea on 10/15/2007 3:11PM
Miss R, you are right. It's that over generalization that makes me want to just smack ignorant people like Bill Cosby. He needs to get a grip and take a look in the mirror. What a perv he is. Really, we know what problems we face -- Bill Cosby can go somewhere with that junk. Who made him God -- and the person to judge a race? I have totally lost respect for Bill Cosby -- he's an embarassment to the Black community, for real.
I never put Black people down in public! It's just wrong.
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By: Themthereeyez on 10/15/2007 3:38PM
He really needs to get his ass somewhere and sit down, because what he is doing is not constructive. People, especially young folks, don't listen when you rant and rave at them. (Especially when your own front door is messy as all get out.) "America's Favorite Dad" should know this by now. Next.
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By: Doris Thornton on 10/15/2007 3:58PM
I saw Mr. Cosby on Meet the Press and his remarks are
timely and needed. Our children are lost...what are we going to do???It was amazing and need for 20,000 people
to go to Jena, Louisiana...Can we get 500 to watch over
our children education with passion?
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By: Jackie G. on 10/15/2007 4:22PM
The truth hurts. Brother Bill is telling the truth. And, if you really listen to what he's saying, he's not just blaming low-income parents for the problems in the Black community - but he also ties in racism - both institutional and systematic that wreak havoc in our society. I believe what Bill is ultimately trying to say is this: stand up and be a parent. If you don't have yourself together, get yourself together so that you can properly address your child's needs. We have to start somewhere and most times, it starts at home.
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By: Miss C on 10/17/2007 11:01AM
It continues to astound me that people would look at Bill Cosby's attempts to help his own people, to speak truthfully to the issues that we as black people face and say he ought not to say it. Mr Cosby does not have to do this. He is a successful black man who can say - well I have taken care of my own business and I don't need to care about the rest of you. It is the perennial complaint of black people that when our own people make it they don't give back. What do you really want them to give back? A fish? Or the lessons they learnt about how to fish? It seems to me that Mr Cosby is giving back both.
Generalizations happen. But if you know that that does not apply to you, chances are, others will get to know it too. Chances also are that your children or granchildren, nieces and nephews would be bringing one of those generalisations into your home, your life or your family. Therefore, as a people, we cannot afford to ignore the facts. The successful among us is a minority group and we need to address why. Mr Cosby's approach gives us the platform to do this, to discuss it in our homes and in our communities.
Take a look at the school system. Are our children striving and prospering? You know what really is scary? Things have gotten better for black people. We do not have to go through even a quarter of the stuff our ancestors went through: being kidnapped from our homes, marched to the coast amidst abuseand terror, imprisoned with no idea of what will befall us, surviving the middle passage, slavery, the so called post-emancipation period with no kind of restitution, and all of the blood, sweat and tears they gave and had to give, willingly or unwillingly to see us through to today, yet as a people, we are moving backwards, not forward.
It is a shame, not an honor to have our ancestors sacrifice so much to come so far, only to still be hearing in the 21st century America, "the first black person to achieve such and such." It tells us that as a people we have not carried on the struggle like we ought to with the freedoms we have inherited. What would have our ancestors done with the freedoms we enjoy today?
The real questions that should be discussed are first, if Mr Cosby speaks truthfully, what are we going to do about it in our lives, and in our communities, in our workplaces, in our schools, in our house of worship?
Second, is the way that we are choosing to live today honoring all the sacrifices our forefathers made?
When we ride the bus and the trains and remember the quiet dignity of Rosa Parks, and look around at the other black folk riding alongside us does their very conduct, speech, carriage and manner of dress echoes any of the dignity and pride of our ancestors. Are these the folk you would want your name, your children, your family members to be associated with? Would you want them showing up in your workplace? On your doorstep? I hope that we can all say yes and mean it.
We have always known that knowledge and education is power. Yet our children have the highest drop-out rates in all of America. We must refuse to let our children drop out of school. Going to school to learn is their job. We must make sure they do it. Demand of them and the school system that they graduate as well-rounded, literate and educated citizens by the time they are finished with school.
Black people in this country have great influence over language world-wide. Our words become common-place and even enter the dictionary at a pace that is astonishing. We are consumers of goods and products.
We know that even God judges our speech for our words have creative power. It can create good things, but it can also create evil. Forbid the use and the acceptance of belittling language and demand that they treat themselves and those around them with respect. And you would find that the people who we pay to belittle us, demean our men and women, and destroy our children, to help us sink even further into the pits will turn around would think twice about doing so.
Demand that black history be fully incorporated and integrated into our school's American history curriculum. Black history is an integral part of the history of this country. Look at your children's lessons. It is always asking our children to put themselves into the past as white folk - not as black -so that all American children - black, white, asian, hispanic or mixed race - lose out on the truth and nothing has a chance of being done as a result.
To get things done, to bring change, we have to put these things out into the public forum. We must take charge of the engine room. As a people, we need to get our real issues out on the table and work seriously every single day to correct them from both ends - within and outside of our race. If we do not, we will continue to be disrespected and abused by others.
Our forefathers have left us a great legacy. What will we be leaving?
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By: Simwatalana on 11/24/2009 7:29AM
THANK YOU! What an eloquent and refreshing post.
I agree with you completely and pray that the nay sayers will one day see the light!
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