By Karu F. Daniels, BlackVoices.com

The man formerly married to ex-TV personality Star Jones is speaking up – and clearing up a few misconceptions while at it.
"I am not a homosexual," Al Scale Reynolds declared on his recently released YouTube channel, which stormed the Internet this week.
Obviously, the media savvy former banker is well aware that some unscrupulous bloggers loosely refer to him as "Big Gay Al."
And, according to him, it has maligned his professional reputation.
"It's really weird to me and it's really kind of upsetting to me that that's where people would go as it related to my sexuality," he explained. "This has affected my professional life. This has affected my personal life. And if anyone knew the damage that it has caused me, they would understand I am very aggressive about this."
The 30-something-year-old Virginia native said he wanted "people to know that I'm more than Star Jones' ex-husband - I'm Al Reynolds" in clip appropriately titled, "The Al Reynolds you don't know."
"I'm about service. I'm about educating. I'm about motivating. I'm about helping. I'm about inspiring. That's what I feel the next chapter for Al Reynolds is going to be about."Speaking of chapters, he's putting the finishing touches on a financial literacy tome geared at the middle-to-low class -- tentatively titled 'Bank On It.'
"I'm not a fade-away type of guy," he proclaimed. "I'm a guy who progresses and moves forward. I was successful before I met Star, and I plan to be successful after Star. I'm in the public eye now. That's the truth. It comes with responsibilities. I'm using it as an opportunity to educate and motivate people."About his former wife, he did say he still loved her.
"I still very much love her," he told the 'Associated Press' in an interview. "I do. I can't lie to you."
And though approached by many media outlets for opportunities to trash her, he decided to honor their relationship by taking the high road. "I wasn't interested in participating in the sensationalism," he said.
The couple wed at Saint Bartholomew's Church in New York City on Nov. 13, 2004. The lavish wedding -- which reportedly had 500 camera-ready guests, three matrons of honor, 12 bridesmaids and four flower girls -- came under scrutiny when Jones discussed its sponsors at length on her ABC show.
She filed divorce papers in late March of this year.
"The fantasy was for every 40-year-old Black woman who was overweight and wanted to get married. That was my fantasy, but the marriage is not," Jones said in an interview with 'Jet' magazine last summer. "It belongs to us ... We're not a Hollywood couple. We may be a couple that people write about, but there is nothing celebrity about us."


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By: monica mitchell on 7/19/2008 12:15AM
As previously stated, "it IS H.I.S business". None of us were in their marriage and the media always state what they want to and part of what really is going on. At any rate, unless any of you are sleeping with either of them...whats it to you, if he's gay or how unattractive she may or may not be? Get a life.
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By: angel on 7/16/2008 11:11PM
It doesnt matter to me if he is gay. What ticks me off is now he thinks HE is some kind of celebrity. Catch that sentence where he says: he is in the public eye. If he would shut up, he will fade away and no one will care.
He used Star as any good black man would do to gain status. Star very well may have used Al a little bit too. Women get desperate sometimes for a man.
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By: christa on 7/16/2008 11:12PM
i don't think he's gay. i think he and star split because there was no more "cushion for the pushin"...lol.
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By: Sal on 7/16/2008 11:19PM
No shame in being gay . The shame is when the "Christian" conservative preachers who preach family values get caught with male hookers and/or boys.
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By: chris on 7/16/2008 11:21PM
Funny how he decides to clear all this up...just about the time he needs some free publicity for his new book.
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By: debra on 7/16/2008 11:24PM
He's fruitcake i see it in his eyes.
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By: Interesting on 7/16/2008 11:23PM
I agree, what difference does it make really. Who cares. But...something is wrong with him if he married Star Jones! Lol. She is an idiot! And thinks she is all that and a bag of chips. He would be better off with someone else whether it be a guy or a girl!
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By: Wizard1234 on 7/16/2008 11:31PM
ALL, I mean ALL of you need to mind your own damn business. Who cares if he's gay or not? Knowing that information does not make me or any of you any wiser.
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By: Dottie654 on 7/17/2008 2:26AM
I guess some people are comfortable accepting and acknowledging their sexuality (Doogie, Lance, etc.) and some are not (Tom, Mario, Al, etc.). For whatever reason, Al chooses to stay in the closet when it comes to the paparazzi/press. He is who he is b/c he married a liar and a publicity whore w/ no talent. I suspect he will fade away just like Star is beginning to.
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By: Kim on 7/16/2008 11:28PM
wHO REALLY CARES IF AL IS GAY OR NOT! IF HE SAYS HE IS NOT I BELIEVE HIM. THAT COULDNT BE ANY WORSE THAN MARRYING THAT NASTY WISH SHE WAS A CELEBRITY STAR JONES. I WOULDNT WANT MY SEXUALITY BEING QUESTIONED IN THE PAPERS. THEN AGAIN ANY ONE WHO KNOWS ME KNOWS I AM STRICTLY DICKLY. IF I WAS GAY I SURE WOULDNT CARE WHAT THE WORLD THINKS ABOUT IT. AND BEST TO JUST BE WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE THEN LIVE A LIE. BESIDES THE IDEA OF ME AL AND ANOTHER GUY IN THE BED SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT TIME FOR ALL INVOLVED. LOL
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