'Real Housewives of Atlanta' star Kandi Burruss is formally breaking her silence about the tragic death of her ex-fiance Ashley 'A.J.' Jewell.
Jewell, who has appeared in several episodes of the hit Bravo reality series, was killed after a fight outside popular Atlanta strip club, The Body Tap, late Friday night. As previously reported by BV Newswire, Frederick Richardson was charged with voluntary manslaughter in the beating death of Jewell the next day.
According to the Atlanta Journal Constitution, Richardson was an employee at the strip club and Jewell was a part-owner.
The former Xscape front-woman released a statement on Sunday afternoon about her loss.
"I am devastated by the loss of AJ. His death comes on the heels of the death of my beloved Uncle Ralph and with both of them gone, my heart is heavy with grief."
The Grammy Award-winning songwriter said that she spoke with AJ just two hours before she got the phone call that he was in the hospital. She added, "Never in a thousand years did I think it was going to be the last time I heard his voice. He was taken way too soon. There are so many things that I should have said to him, wanted to say to him...but now it's too late."
Burruss previously took to Twitter.com early Saturday saying that she did not want to talk, but that she was thankful for prayers and kind words she received from the public. In her new statement, she expressed her gratitude at the support she has received.
"I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to all of my family and friends -- and that means my Twitter and Facebook friends as well -- for the beautiful words of encouragement, prayers, and the sweet condolences. I make it through these difficult days because of you."
As for Jewell, he leaves behind six children. Burruss asked for people to "please pray for his children, his family and [her own daughter] Riley - they too are grieving the loss of an incredible man, son, brother and father."
The Atlanta native lamented, "I wish you all had gotten to know the AJ we all knew and loved," and left a few choice words for the world.
"I know this is cliché' but I urge everyone to treat each day as if it's your last and tell that special someone you love them today. Don't wait. It may be too late."
No information on Jewell's funeral services were released.


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By: Roxanne on 10/05/2009 10:52AM
Kandi look to heaven for strength, AJ seemed nice and quiet, I am a fan of the show. You have a nice family they will support you in whatever you do.
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By: Vicki on 10/05/2009 10:45AM
Kandi you are a very strong woman and I know you are hurting but you will get through this. You have wonderful parents who support you. God bless you and your daughter. God bless AJ's children who had their daddy taken in a terrible way and had to have it spashed through the media. I am sorry for that.
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By: Michael on 10/06/2009 8:46AM
It is always tragic when someone leaves so unexpectedly,many prayers baby girl God loves you no matter what the naysayers say.
You have my heart.
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By: DAPPY on 10/05/2009 11:11AM
Come on. You can't really be surprised by another murdered black guy now, can you?? Really ??
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By: heather on 10/05/2009 11:13AM
i feel really bad for her and his family. i hate that it happened to someone who seemed to be a great family man.
i hope none of those other housewives make any rude comments about the situation.
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By: KK on 10/05/2009 11:19AM
if you hadn't noticed, white women started appearing on those shows first so stop acting like its a black or white thing. Kandi my heart felt condolences go out to you and your family and A.J's family.
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By: Bracey on 10/05/2009 11:26AM
Well her mother's prayers was answered. She didn't want them together, and so be it. You know when its your time. I hope he was ready, but coming out of the Strip Club, I don't think he knew too much about Jesus.
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By: ld on 10/05/2009 11:38AM
some one just lost a loved one how insensetive could you be it dosent matter if you watch it or not this is a kind mAN WHO HAD6 KIDS AND A BEAUTIFUL WIFE TO BE .HAVE YOU EVER LOST SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF SOMEONE WAS BAD MOUTHING YOU AND YOUR SHOW AT THE WAKE OF A REAL HARD SAD TIME REAL NICE YOU COLD HEARTED PERSON
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By: k on 10/05/2009 11:32AM
Ignorant is as ignorant does. Educate yourself man, because you sound stupid.
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By: Tia on 10/05/2009 11:46AM
LLLOOSSEERR! You are an idiot!
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