After all the hoopla about whether Oprah Winfrey is being hypocritical with her stance on domestic violence, one woman is holding the beloved media maven accountable.
On Nov. 13, Robin Givens came face-to-face with her 'Women of Brewster Place' co-star and producer to express her disappointment with how Winfrey recently handled an interview with her ex-husband, Mike Tyson.
The 45-year-old former 'Head of the Class' actress is the spokesperson for the National Domestic Violence Hotline.
She wrote a letter to the talk show diva about how deeply disturbed and saddened she was by her reaction to the former boxing champion when he appeared on the show to promote his critically acclaimed documentary.
In Tyson's October sit-down with Winfrey, he said he was overwhelmed by the lies Givens told Barbara Walters during the odd couple's infamous 1998 TV interview and that he "truly wanted to sock her."
He added, "Afterwards, I didn't sock her, [but] I had socked her before and she socked me before, as well." And then there was laughter from the studio audience.
"I was really, really hurt, and it was Domestic Violence Awareness month," Givens told Winfrey. 
She reminded Winfrey that Tyson said the best punch he ever threw at her, before adding, "it was tough to experience, but it's tough to have a man say it and feel like it's no big thing."
She took the talk show diva to task, saying, "I'm a woman with love for you, tremendous respect, tremendous admiration, and I wouldn't be honest if there wasn't a part of me that, when he said, 'I socked her before,' [for you to not] say 'that's not right' and it wasn't right...it was painful."
"When there is this laughter, if you are in that situation out there, it kind of lightens it for all the women that are experiencing it," Givens continued.
Winfrey then apologized. "In that moment, I felt that I should have said something, [like] 'Audience that isn't funny.' Or 'Audience this is really serious.' So I regret it even after that moment."
"I would say to you, and to every woman who has ever been hit, I feel that I did not handle that as well as I should have, and I feel that I could have gone further and should have said more to clarify that what he was doing and what he was saying was wrong," Winfrey confessed. "I apologize to you, and I apologize to every woman who has ever been in that situation. I apologize for not being sharp enough to make sure that you know that I don't think that that's okay."
Rihanna's name came up in the discussion, too. The 'Umbrella' singer, who was involved in a very public domestic violence ordeal with boyfriend Chris Brown, recently spoke out about her relationship with Brown on a '20/20' interview with Diane Sawyer.
"Rihanna said it quite well," said Givens. "She said, 'I did not cause this.' And, I did not cause it and woman going through this, you're not causing it."


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By: Debra on 11/17/2009 10:48PM
I think that it is important to let someone know what they have done to hurt or offended you. This is what Robin Givens was doing when she told Oprah how that whole situation and the lack of Oprah's appropriate response made her and every woman feel that has been in this type of abuse and disrespect. Oprah through her media position and influence can send the message out loud and clear to men. "IT'S NOT OKAY TO HIT WOMEN" and it don't matter who you are you don't have the right to hit a woman. And for everyone that thanks that Robin didn't have the right to tell Oprah how she felt and how the lack of her response to the situation at hand not only crippled women in this type of struggle for survival but weakened and re-injured women everywhere that has been in a situation of abuse or is currently going through this. Now that Oprah is aware she can take the initiative to get the word out "IT'S NOT OKAY TO HIT WOMEN!" and that it is actually wrong. In addition, the women that are still going through can stop beating themselves up in addition to the abuse they are getting from their partner. And finally realize that they are worthy of being more than a punching bag.
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By: Marji on 11/19/2009 12:38PM
Is it OK for women to attack men? Would you agree that there is always two sides to a story and then there's the truth?
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By: jay jay on 11/19/2009 10:42PM
Robin Givens has a right to an opinion on Oprah's show and to send a written comment to the show just like anyone else. She disagrees with the way Oprah handled a situation, and O. agrees with the criticism. Oprah opted to make the letter public. That isn't whining. It's expressing an opinion just like we do on blogs. She doesn't need your permission.
Robin didn't say that the best punch Tyson ever threw was at Robin. Tyson said that in the biography that Jose Torres wrote for him. In fact, he said the punch had her bouncing off walls.
For the ignorant and uninformed, the contract that Robin Givens and her mother got for Tyson was unprecedented in boxing history at that time. All they ever did was make sure that Tyson got his share.
There is no evidence that Robin "fought" Mike Tyson, just as there is no evidence that Rhianna hit Chris Brown. For the record, Chris told Larry King that he doesn't remember what happened.
There is a disturbing pattern on this site. Everyone is against domestic violence - unless they don't like the woman. And many of you have some serious problems with black women.
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By: walter on 11/18/2009 12:46AM
i think ms Givens is a gold digger,fraud,fake and phony.I saw and remembered the interview with ms Walters and it exposed her to what she really is.
Ms Winfrey had no reason to aplogize,Ms Givens should pray to the LORD and ask him for guidance in her life then find something to do constructively with her time.
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By: Zeebotofyah on 11/18/2009 5:00AM
Robin Givens has spilled her guts on Mike Tyson, but has said nothing about her guilt in the issue. She is proved to be a woman of words. What mind game did she play on him to initiate his abuse?
That said, I want it made clear that I am still against men hitting women, but I'm not stupid. A lot of women are just as guilty as the men in these fights. Mike used his fists, but Robin's words most certainly could have been just as painful and damaging.
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By: Em on 11/18/2009 9:39AM
As one how has been severely abused by a male, I will have to agree that Robin was correct to remind Oprah of the need to be careful in one's response to this delicate issue and to keep her audience on track. Domestic violence is very complicated and it is quite sad that women can be just as violent although not as physically strong. We as humans, have a lot of work to do when it comes to controlling our emotions and we are all quite volatile. I will admit in my situation that I knew how to push the buttons and did so to the detriment of myself and my abuser. We both regretted it in the end but it had gone too far by then. These abusive relationships are quite passionate so I can understand Rihanna's confusion. She is probably still very much in love with Chris and her head(and everybody else) is telling her that she should not still have feelings but her heart is probably aching inside as she has been intimately exposed to his vulnerability and knows his internal struggles. I will be praying for her because it is hard to get beyond those conflicting feelings no matter what ANYBODY says about what you should feel.
Mike Tyson made some bad choices as a young person as did Robin and they both need to put it behind them and move on in love. WE make bad choices, we hopefully learn from them and pray that these vices do not emerge again.
I wish both Mike and Robin all the best in life and pray that Robin will embrace her entire life story as valuable. She has been both abused and abusive and until she recognizes and acknowledges this she will never truly move on and be all that God intended. ALL have sinned and come short. Robin included.
Oprah is not perfect, just famous and she too will fall short of our expectation on occasion. Nevertheless she does an excellent job and is someone all the world should be proud of. She has built an empire from the ground up and needs to be celebrated for all that she endeavors to do for all races.
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By: jay jay on 11/18/2009 7:11PM
You can't be serious. So now it isn't enough for a woman to not initiate contact with a man to avoid being struck. She also has to make sure she doesn't SAY anything to provoke him? And you think you are against domestic violence? Do you realize how backwards you sound?
If you like Tyson and just want him to be right, you should just admit that. But right now, you truly sound insane.
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By: adress this on 12/23/2009 1:29PM
Mike Tyson said there was mutual combat , though he is a registered boxer and should not have hit her, what about her hitting him. He said she hit him too it was a dysfunctional marriage. What about her part in it, she does not adress that. She acts like Miss Perfect, never did like her. Its the only reason I sometimes skip watching a House Of Payne episode, why did they put her in such a cool series?Lets pitch in and get Mis ME ME ME all about Me some space panties for Christmas, cuz she thinks her butt is out of this world!!!She is not a likeable person.
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