Bob Marley is embroiled in a fiery debate with a Las Vegas-based publisher over alleged unauthorized changes to the cover and title of his recently released memoir which threatens to taint the near-perfect image of reggae music royalty, the Marleys.Ky-Mani Marley, a Grammy Award-nominated reggae and hip-hop artist, penned "Dear Dad: Where's the family in our family, today?'' which was released this month by Farrah Gray Publishing in celebration of Marley's 65th birthday.
The issue between author and publisher lies mainly in the extra coverline: "The Story The Marley Family Apparently Doesn't Want You To Know.''
In an online statement, Ky-Mani says the caption is unauthorized: "I did NOT authorize him to make any changes to the cover of my book, nor do I condone any of the captions he has written!''
Further, Ky-Mani told The Gleaner, a Jamaican newspaper, that he was considering legal action against the Gray, saying he simply wanted to tell his story without causing any conflict. He told the newspaper the title was changed from "Dear Dad: The Marley Son Who Persevered From The Streets To Prominence."
But Dr. Farrah Gray, the publisher, stands by the book, saying he worked with Marley every step of the way. He said that Marley wrote the book using a ghostwriter and the interviews were recorded.
"I didn't write his book,'' Gray told BV on Books. "I published it. He did the final edit. Now he's issuing a statement that he didn't approve it...for those of us who believe in one love, Ky-Mani Marley's story deserves light. He's throwing me under the bus and going on a smear campaign, but I have the tapes. The tapes are worse and he doesn't want those publicized.''
Beyond the controversy, "Dear Dad'' is an absorbing read. It lays bare some long hidden family secrets. Ky-Mani writes that after his father's untimely death in 1981, he grew up outside the realm of his father's prestigious roots, and all the wealth, and comfort it had to offer.
Instead, born out of wedlock to Marley and Anita Belnavis, a table tennis champion, he writes that he grew up in abject poverty in Jamaica and then on the hardscrabble streets of Miami's Liberty City, where he hustled crack. They later moved to a south Miami suburb so he could escape the drugs, but he ended up fighting his way through school.
He goes on to paint an unflattering portrait of the family, especially Rita Marley, the matriarch, who according to the book, proclaimed on the day of Bob Marley's untimely death from cancer: " 'All of Bob's dutty baby's mothers and bastard children will suffer'...And so it was.''

Ky-Mani is the 10th of Bob Marley's 11 children, according to the official Marley Web site. Not all of them have the same mothers.
"It didn't matter who my father was. I grew up in the trap, the ghetto. I'm just like the millions who are out there right now. I wanted to live. Survive. Just like you would if you were there. Survival is the instinct of life itself, and like I said before, if it meant selling all the ...drugs in America, that's exactly what I would have done to make it out. That was my clear perspective about it. End of story.''
Additionally, Ky-Mani writes that after he turned 18, he was forced to decide between taking a lump sum payment from the Marley estate and risk not being "part of the estate,'' or reinvest the payment. He took the lump sum to the consternation of some family members, prompting some to stop speaking to him for a time, he writes. The Marley estate is expected to generate worldwide annual sales in excess of $1 billion by 2012, according to Fortune Magazine.
But through the pain, there was love, he writes, the kind his father inculcates through his music even today. Marley's music remains popular.
"I love my Marley family,'' Ky-Mani writes. "Period. I love them. I love both of my families, every last member. Love them. I'm the type of man who reserves his deepest love and loyalty for family.''
Gray adds that Ky-Mani's positive energy and survival instinct are what inspired him to publish "Dear Dad.''
"The reason I decided to published it is that I hope it will provide people with a pivotal moment to change their lives,'' Gray said. "He may have been born with the last name, but that did not guarantee privilege. His story should inspire others. If he can survive the streets, and the harsh realities that he talks about throughout the book, it is possible to survive what you go through. You also get the truth about some very controversial things.
"The part that inspires me most is that he lived the life that his father sings about and the people he used to sing to, the forgotten, the rejected, the neglected, the downtrodden and disadvantaged.''


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By: willette on 2/17/2010 3:56PM
these women knew he was married to rita and still pulled up the dress. who knows what games bob played and you know he didn't use protection. young blood, be glad the law got you some nickles because of your dna and your name, because if left to rita, your nickles would have went to her pick-nee only. hate the game.
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By: dreamz777 on 2/18/2010 12:37AM
BOB knew he was the married to Rita. Her dress is the only one he should have been under. I don't care if every woman he met had her dress above her head, he should have kept his pants zipped.
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By: Michelle on 2/17/2010 9:30PM
Ky-Mani should have received his just due! A child of Bob Marley should not have had to deal with this. Children are innocent in situations like this. It is not the child's fault the man cheats. The Marley Estate should be ashamed of themselves.
I read the book and that Marley stuff wasn't even needed. Ky-Mani is a survivor and he has been thru some things.
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By: Tina Marie Clark on 3/28/2010 9:30PM
I am reading your book "Dear Dad" "Where's The Family In Our Family Today?" I read about the two & half rooms the out door bathroom and kitchen I read about your impoverished up bringing, I Feel now you are the rel son Of Bob Marley! not just biologically but truthfully and spiritually, yet I see you have read my e-mails of pain which I have honestly received by no fault of my own from Rita Marley And Others In The Marley Family I Have sent cries for help simply because I have cried all my life through being raised in an orphanage and 11 foster homes yet I held my own as I'm reading you have, we have a lot in common please don't be as the new Marley family Is Acting With People For As You Know It Comes Back "ONE TIME" I have after reading most of your book decided to listen to your music "I Became A Fan Instantly" I Love Your B-Boy Style With That Reggae Twist! I Hope We can Be Friends All Is True In The Words I've Sent You Except Of Course Taking My Life It was Just A Last minute Effort To Get The Marley's attention As To How deep The Pain Is In My Heart! They None replied! That Made Me Want To Live More! Please Let's Talk We Could Be Great Friends Please Hear My Tribute To Your Father "In Memory Of Bob" myspace.com/tinamariesoriginalsongs also Hear Your Late Grandmother Cedella Marley Singing My Song "No Brother's Blood"
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By: Monifa on 2/17/2010 8:20PM
@willette: Blaming women for men's behavior is SO played out. HE was the one that was married. HE made the promise. HE owed fidelity to his wife. Didn't HE know he was married?? I am not condoning the situation- but put the blame where it belongs.
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By: E.King on 2/17/2010 9:18PM
thank you Monifa!
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By: leolux10 on 2/17/2010 9:25PM
@Monifa Whoever said it was "played out"? You? It'll never be "played out", as long as it's still an issue. Yes, he was married, and yes, he owed fidelity to his wife. Bad judgements from a mere mortal. Haven't you ever cheated, or done something you weren't supposed to? I'm sure you have, Ms. Monifah. lol Married, or not, cheating is still cheating. Willete was merely stating women's desperation, and a mans temptation (at least that's what I got from it). BOTH sides are to blame! Marley, AND the women!
Ever heard of accountability? Look it up. smh
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By: li li on 2/18/2010 2:12AM
i completely agree with you women are constantly being blamed and its never the mans fault obviously the men have some women right where they want them,they guy is the victim to the sexual prowess. before you speak know the history bob and Rita got married after he already had 9 children in 1966 six boys and three girls(btw bob and rita only had 4 children) so with that being said some of the women weren't screwing a married man a dishonest one maybe but he wasn't married. furthermore these women don't owe Rita a damn thing the only person the owe is themselves a little self respect. and as a Rastafarian and typical Jamaican man (from what I hear from the ones I know) "Man ah Man" meaning as a man your entitled to more than one women and be fruitful and multiply (they are quoting the bible where IDK) its also something Muslims and a few other religions do. so before u pass judgment on these women get the whole story
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By: E.King on 2/17/2010 9:23PM
"One Love." "Free Love." The man understood the meaning of love. Maybe he was reckless. I can't believe she let his children grow up in poverty. That fact that she cannot love ALL of his children makes me wonder if she loved him. I am sure I would have loved them....
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By: dreamz777 on 2/18/2010 12:48AM
WHAT??? OMG, you must be high on something!!! What if she had children from different MEN while she was married to him. I bet all that "love" sh*t would be right window!!!
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