
"Let me say this, if you don't do that, she'll find someone that will. And in these days it might be her best friend. If your girl is clean and deserving, why not? The best sex is between two givers... that's off the chain. If you know how to do it properly, you will thoroughly enjoy the fruits of your labor."
-- Grammy Award-nominated singer Raheem DeVaughn opens up on women receiving oral sex. Recently, the Jive Records recording artist became the subject of much fodder for his new sexually charged music video, 'She's Single.' (Vibe)


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By: Shellfish789 on 12/02/2010 10:42AM
He's right!
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By: ANONYMOUS on 12/02/2010 11:49AM
Good for him!
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By: Unbelievable on 12/02/2010 1:48PM
@Shellfish:
NO! He is so WRONG! Contrary to popular belief, there are countless numbers of people who DO NOT engage in "oral" sex. Technically speaking, stimulation of the male and female genitalia with the mouth is NOT sex! Actually, what many people call "oral" sex is no more than MASTURBATING your partner with your mouth or tongue!
After reading articles all week long on HIV/AIDS, I would caution anyone who either currently engages in oral stimulation of the male or female genitalia or is even thinking about engaging in this pleasuring behavior to think TWICE before putting your mouth in places where you could actually contract something that you will regret for the rest of your natural born life!!!
Anyone who leaves a relationship primarily because his or her partner will NOT perform "ORAL" sex or ORAL MASTURBATION on him or her is NOT worth being in a relationship with in the first place... that is unless the relationship is based strictly and solely on physical and sexual pleasuing. And trust me when I tell you that a plethora of those types of relationships DO exist.
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By: Redheels on 12/04/2010 7:30AM
As long as BOTH parties are CONSENTING adults - to each his own!
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By: Clinesha18 on 12/04/2010 1:12PM
He said, "The best sex is between two givers... that's off the chain."
This gives the impression that one in the relationship is already giving oral. And if the one giving it is HER and he doesn't return the favor, then she gonna bounce. If he is cool with receiving it; he should be cool with giving it. That's my interpretation of what he's saying.
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By: staypositive on 12/12/2010 11:12AM
how bout they just start making songs and videos where women are objects.. i guess sex sells..
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By: Rodney on 12/02/2010 7:13AM
Wow, this was truly a work of art. I like the fact that he stepped out the box and took a chance with this one. It is far from being raunchy or distasteful. It was elegant... It's just awesome!
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By: The Truth on 12/02/2010 8:46AM
All week I've viewed articles on HIV awareness and how it affects us all etc...
Looks like we're back to square one.
Some stuff needs to remain in the bedroom (Where it belongs)
And some wonder what's wrong with children today?
Look no further...Pure trash I'd say.
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By: westfall on 12/02/2010 1:09PM
@the truth - you're right. How is this trash art? Bedroom behavior needs to be kept in the bedroom. No one needs to know who uses their mouths as sex organs.
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By: Unbelievable on 12/02/2010 2:24PM
@Rodney:
I have studied many forms of artistic expression for many years. So trust when I say that what Reheem has produced is NOT a "work of art". However, I shall confess that art... just like beauty... is in the eye of the beholder. It simply becomes a matter of TASTE!!!
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