
"Let me say this, if you don't do that, she'll find someone that will. And in these days it might be her best friend. If your girl is clean and deserving, why not? The best sex is between two givers... that's off the chain. If you know how to do it properly, you will thoroughly enjoy the fruits of your labor."
-- Grammy Award-nominated singer Raheem DeVaughn opens up on women receiving oral sex. Recently, the Jive Records recording artist became the subject of much fodder for his new sexually charged music video, 'She's Single.' (Vibe)


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By: Clinesha18 on 12/04/2010 1:28PM
For those opposing this subject, have you never read about sexuality, studied it in school, had adult conversations about it? What do you mean trash? Having sex is trash? You just knew everything about sex with every hearing anyone speak on it? Please!!!
Keep in the bedroom? No, we should talk about it; the good and the bad or do you just whip it out and hope it finds the sweet spot. You CAN be creative and safe. Ya'll bedroom must be boring as hell. But, whatever floats ya boat.
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By: Give me a Break on 12/04/2010 4:05PM
@ Clinesha18...I think when people say "keep it in the bedroom" I feel they mean, it is not necessary to make video's and songs about it. I truly don't feel many people are afraid of sex or to talk about it amongst their partners. IMHO, it becomes perverted as exhibited in videos on TV and songs on the radio today. That can be kept in the bedroom. Those video's aren't teaching and schooling anybody, again IMHO. Only giving inexperienced teenagers on what to try. Something they have no idea about. Many teens talk a bunch of "smack" anyway about sex, only emulate what they see in video's. The girls see...6 inch heels and teddies, and the young men 6 pack abs and boxers.....sigh!!!
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By: YouKnowWho on 12/02/2010 9:44AM
That's the reason women are running things into the ground now MEN always worried about what SHE gonna do. You just be the MAN that GOD created YOU to be and stop worring about what SHE GONE DO. People do a lot of s**t, and not all of it is right.
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By: Gichaya on 12/05/2010 1:44PM
HMMMMMMMMM, CAN WE SAY, "R KELLY" WANABEE
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By: Kalynn on 12/02/2010 11:51AM
What we need to be talking and singing about is BLACK FOLK getting married and raising strong families. Now, what folks do in the context of their marriage is their own business!!!
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By: westfall on 12/02/2010 1:13PM
Thank you!!!
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By: Vanessa on 12/04/2010 10:07PM
AMEN AND AMEN! KEEP IT REAL!
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By: Fashionedbygod33 on 12/06/2010 6:38PM
Preach Kalynn!
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By: Ruth on 12/02/2010 3:47PM
That was truly disgusting, and hopefully this won't fall in the hands of our kids. They know too much about nothing as it is.
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By: Unbelievable on 12/02/2010 2:11PM
@Ruth:
I could not agree with you more! Have you observed that Black Voices seldom write articles on the positive and constructive things taking place among African Americans in this country, and that the majority of people who comment on this site seldom have positive and constructive things to say? There are far more important national and international occurrences taking place that affect African Americans either positively or negatively that need to be addressed and dealt with. But I surmise that Black Voices give African Americans what they think African Americans need and want to read about the most...nothing but sheer unadulterated nonsense strictly for the sake of entertainment and amusement!! What a disregard and disrespect for the intelligence of African American people????
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