
"Let me say this, if you don't do that, she'll find someone that will. And in these days it might be her best friend. If your girl is clean and deserving, why not? The best sex is between two givers... that's off the chain. If you know how to do it properly, you will thoroughly enjoy the fruits of your labor."
-- Grammy Award-nominated singer Raheem DeVaughn opens up on women receiving oral sex. Recently, the Jive Records recording artist became the subject of much fodder for his new sexually charged music video, 'She's Single.' (Vibe)


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By: "DimePiece" on 12/02/2010 2:12PM
I too agree with Kayln and others on here, what Mr. Raheem need to be talking about is about MUSIC, FAMILY, MARRIAGE, ECT...! This was VERY DISTASTEFUL just not RIGHT to TALK ABOUT THIS SUBJECT ON BV! That talk should be kept wit your PARTNER, OK! Jaheem, this should have been kept PRIVATE, NOT PUBLIC FOR BV READERS TO READ! I thought he was going to talk about his next coming album or tour or something? I feel, artist, celebs, ect.. shouldn't talk about their SEX LIFE and in DETAIL in the MEDIA! I see where his mind is at and I see that my mind is in NOT COPIN HIS NEXT ALBUM!
COME ON RAHEEM? WHY YOU WANNA GO THERE WIT THAT?
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By: "DimePiece" on 12/02/2010 2:25PM
I feel, Mr. NASTY RAHEEM was in a SITUATION like this before and felt he had to STEP UP TO THE PLATE or his girl, woman whatever was going to KICK HIM TO THE CURB? With him sayin that if you don't do it she might have her girlfriend to do it is just PLAIN WRONG and FOUL! Look at him in the above pic wit his DAMN MOUTH ALL WIDE OPEN?
CLOSE IT, RAHEEM!!!!!! There are so many DISEASES out her today that will KILL YA AZZ! DISTASTEFUL!
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By: ethel on 12/05/2010 2:01PM
If someone would dish a relationship mainly because his/her partner would not engage in sexual acts which that partner finds objectionable - good riddance - it was never a relationship to begin with. Couples agree on mutual sexual satisfying acts - no one should be subject to "blackmail" - I walk if I do not get what I want!
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By: "DimePiece" on 12/02/2010 4:50PM
@ ethel
You have a good point! Hey, I would WALK, and KEEP IT MOVIN, NEXT.......? You don't have to do something you don't want to do? People will be so selfish and say "Can't you at least TRY?" My answer would still be "HELL NAW"! This wasn't a relationship from the jump if the other partner DON'T UNDERSTAND! Anyway, a relationship, shouldn't be BASED on ORAL SEX? That is not what a REAL RELATIONSHIP is ALL ABOUT!
I wonder if the shoe was on the other foot, If Jaheem would do the same thing if he was in a relationship with a woman and she didn't want to do that for him? 1) Would he, KICK HER TO THE CURB, and get someone other female who will?", 2) Would he say "Sweetheart, you don't have to do something that you aren't comfortable with, I understand" and I LOVE YOU ANYWAY?", or, 3) Jaheem would say to his woman, "Sweetheart, if you can't than I will get my friend (A MAN) to do the do"? I was using that scenario because, he said in the interview if his woman wasn't getting it from him then she could get it from her girlfriend? I'm just sayin, what would really go down if it was him?
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By: clarke on 12/02/2010 4:43PM
HEY WHAT'S UP DIME, HOW WAS YOUR THANKSGIVING AND HOW ARE YOU AND THE FAMILY DOING? I DID JUST WHAT I SAID I WAS GOING TO DO I TOOK THE PARADE SHIFT SO I WAS I CHARGE OF ALL THE KIDS. EVERYBODY HAD A GOOD TIME AND I DIDN'T LOSE ANYBODY LOLOLOLOL. MY SISTER WAS IN CHARGE OF THE FOOD SO WHEN WE GOT HOME ALL I HAD TO DO WAS EAT AND GO TO SLEEP. NOW IT'S TIME TO GET READY FOR CHRISTMAS. CAN YOU BELIEVE IT'S ALMOST 2011? DID THIS YEAR FLY BY OR WHAT? HEY MY FRIEND YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BE BLEESED. TALK TO YOU LATER. PEACE.
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By: "DimePiece" on 12/02/2010 5:08PM
What it do clarke? :-) I'm glad you had a nice Thanksgiving wit the kids. How was the weather? You said you went home ate and slept. YOU CAN DO THAT clarke. That's a job. :-) My cousin rented a place and we got there late because we were late. It was all good. The food was OFF THE CHAIN! You name it Ham, Turkey, Chittlings, Sweet Potatoe pie, THE WHOLE NINE! Look, I baked 2 big ol trays of "Macoroni & Cheese". Boy, I can throw down on some Mac & Cheese. We got there right, and set it on the tables. Everybody looked at it and WALKED AWAY? I was like, "Yall better come back & pull the foil back and EAT this"? You ain't going to let my delicious food go to waste? That's not what excatly what I said, but I was thinking about it? :-)
Can't beleive X-Mas is around the corner? Look, I learned my lesson and do all my stuff online and next week I will be starting on baking my DELICIOUS COOKIES!!!! Look, I do what my Grandma do by "Making EVERYTHING by hand". clarke, NO MIXERS ok? I got SKILLS. Look, I baked over 800 cookies last year. The year before that, I made my church a big ol tray with 100 cookies on it. Everybody thought I catered and had my own business clarke? I make RUM BALLS, and I use 150 proof in them. clarke, it will KNOCK YOU OUT. It's like 2 shots in one rum ball? Let me stop.
Nasty Jaheem need to STOP and stick to his music! Glad to see you partner. You have a Blessed day! :-)
PEACE!!!!
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By: I'm a Survivor! on 12/03/2010 10:37AM
Dime -- You are making me hungry! lol GOOD for you that you do all that baking from scratch, plus you help your church and community. The world needs more caring people like you to make it a better place. You and clarke both have a very Merry Christmas and I pray that 2011 is great for you both. I would rather add to a convo that is GOOD and constructive like yours than the filth that this Reheem guy (and last week 50 cent) is dishing out. Don't they know that some things are meant to be private? Shame on them! They get a little cash in their pockets and they think that they are some kind of sex experts when they only sound stupid! Anyway, you 2 enjoy your Christmas and keep helping others in need and your families. You sound like wonderful people! Peace!
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By: clarke on 12/02/2010 4:47PM
BETWEEN THIS GUY AND RAY J, THEY JUST TRYING TO SEE WHO CAN BE THE NASTIEST. PEACE
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By: Fashionedbygod33 on 12/06/2010 6:39PM
Clarke, let's not forget Trey Songz. They are all in competition. *sigh*
BETWEEN THIS GUY AND RAY J, THEY JUST TRYING TO SEE WHO CAN BE THE NASTIEST. PEACE
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By: nomoxcuses on 12/02/2010 7:07PM
In recognition of HIV/AIDS Awareness month which has skyrocketed through the black community-we hear this! STDs such as Herpes, Chlamydia have taken on a whole new postion that trumps Ghonnera!Last month it was 50cents now this guy. Amazingly, women respond positively. Why do we even need this kind of information? These messages get miscommunicated in the minds of young adults who are already struggling with identity, self esteem, peer pressure etc. and with the infections in our community-adults too, have struggles. No one seems to think that life is about process and progression. Everything is to be done by jumping in with both feet. Why is it uncool to abstain? Why is it uncool to practice monogamy? Raheem DeVaughn needs to check himself!!
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