
The thought of an African-themed wedding may bring to mind images of a huge wedding party, brightly colored prints, dance numbers and festive music. But one couple's nuptials went in a very different direction.
Dave and Chantal (pictured above) were married in April last year, and they aimed for authenticity in their wedding: a "colonial" African theme: t he ceremony took place in Mpumalanga, South Africa, and featured colonial-era props, antique clocks, globes, a zebra skin --- and an all-black servant staff to cater to the wedding's white guests.
Although the couple reserved the right to celebrate their wedding however they wanted, their choice is appalling given the apartheid system that is still in South Africa's recent past and the continent's long, sad history of colonial domination. The wedding is a reminder of the couple's white privilege: they either didn't care if this wedding was done in poor taste or were oblivious to the idea that it could have been considered racist.

Dodai Stewart of Jezebel writes that the captions to some of the images of the all-black staff seems to be: "Remember how great it used to be when our people oppressed brown people? Good times.'"


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By: Mike on 7/13/2011 7:06PM
Am not going to waste my time on this. I thought that we had moved forward.
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By: darrell eason on 7/20/2011 5:09PM
That was yours, and my first mistake; thinking that we moved forward. So sad.
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By: Bruce on 7/13/2011 7:24PM
This is wrong ....period. I liked the part in the Forrest Gump movie where Bubba's mom got a white servent. It was a good payback.
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By: steven bartey on 7/13/2011 7:36PM
Question....As for the Black folk who participated, what was/is their reason for participating in this "blast to the past" racist ceremony?...If it was just for the money, then who should our anger be really focused on? Does our self respect and pride have a price?
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By: ET on 7/14/2011 6:59PM
Wow are we going to blame the victim?....I guess its the same stew warmed over. How can you judge a persons choices and situation that were created by the racism. I guess when apartheid ended everything became equal and fair and those that were on the bottom all became on top. Well I don't know what color the sky is in the world you live in ? Its not like these people who worked at this party have the ability to go to the local food bank...why? uhmmmmmmmmm because there are few if any. Its so easy to look at things through the eyes of the well fed and hydrated and look down on the have nots. If you are dead you have nothing not even pride. Its to easy to sacrifice yourself but can you look your child's eyes and say my pride will keep you from eating. I know if your child was starving and in order to them you'd shovel raw sewage with your bare hands for a dollar a day.
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By: CRYSTAL on 7/13/2011 8:32PM
I am sure the africans that participated needed the job. Even though it was for a day. So many people today are jobless and in alot of cases due to discrimination. There are so many places in northern California where there are no black workers in resturants . I hope there come a day when we see no racism. Only God knows when.
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By: 83pixistix on 8/03/2011 4:35PM
who care money is money people do anything for money
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By: moralite on 8/06/2011 7:31PM
I'm more concerned about the rape epidemic of little girls in South Africa known as the lost girls. South Africa is being called the rape capital of the world is so bad.
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